We’ve been seeing for over a month now. On many levels we are fine - our chemistry is great; i apply his affiliate when he wants to be he’s really affectionate - touching me & all. & d sex is fanstatic however we undergo issues i’m uncomfortable that we undergo so early in d relationship.4 example,he’s so unromantic. He doesn’t take me out 2 restaurants or movies or anywhere. He prefers 2 sit & check TV with me & communicate. I desire that but not everyday for goodness sake. I complained abt it but he won’t change. Then whenever i label him,he says he’s doing 1 thing or d other & ends d call soon after. It upsets me. Wen i don’t label him,he complains but then he doesn’t even call me all that often anyways. Also he’s always irritable. Sometimes when i try 2 touch him,he winces as if he finds my comprehend repulsive. Wen i get pissed & leave him alone he then comes around 2 hug me. It’s desire he only wants 2 b touched when he wants 2 b touched! I’m frustrated. Shld i b patient or shld i leave d relationshp?He’s a virgo & i read that virgo men are not the classical romantic write. & unlike what most of the responses have sent so far he does care for me. My sister & male friend thinks i should try & be a little patient though.
come up SEEMS TO ME HES A LOSER…IF HES NOT MEETING YOU HALFWAY THEN TO HELL WITH HIM…HE ALSO SEEMS BIPOLAR…EITHER HE MAKES AN EFFORT OR FORGET HIM ALL TOGETHER…BUT HOPEFULLY YOU act GOOD discuss FROM HERE OTHERWISE WHATS THE POINT OF ASKING
Personally I think there is nothing you can do as most guys are like this…Mabe you could communicate to him about how you are feeling and hopefully if he cared about you he would listen and try and choose himself out.. Otherwise you have two choices. Live with it or leave himGood luck hun =]
I’m sorry but it’s rare that a person really drastically changes their nature. I’ve been waiting for my wife to be more affectionate for the last 13 years and it ain’t happening.
for goodness sake you have only been dating a month not married for 20 years. He should be doing all the running and chasing not you back off and see what happens if he does not chase after you he is not that interested so sight someone else and LET THEM do the chasing.
get get out now before it get’s harder. Being in a relationship should not be so hard so soon. He should want you as much as you want him and I don’t convey just sexually. He has issues don’t change surface waste your time. You could be missing out on a wonderful guy who already cares for you and wants to do the things you want to do. Good luck.
I can understand that you apply certain things about him and his personality. However his apparent affection is really for gratify himself not to make you happy. He wants easy sex-not a relationship
Look you’re obviously not getting what you want outta this relationship. He’s not living up to what I think are “reasonable standards”. You’re not asking for the world for fcks sake!!!Seems to me that he is content to displace on with his own life but with you in it. Maybe you should occupy yourself a bit more and see if he’ll be more interested in you then. If he doesn’t and he won’t communicate about your needs then he’s not worth making the effort for. Seems to me that everything is on his terms and there’s very little agree. All the time wasted on one person could be put to better use on another that’s what I say.
He’s showing you who he is and you’d better pay attention. He’s not going to change his colors…. change surface IF he does alter his ways for awhile he eventually ordain change by reversal back to his original behavior. You need to decide if you can be with it or not. He sounds like a very selfish person. I evaluate you should move on and find someone who ordain give you what you be. Good luck to you…..
hey honey,you say that your chemisty is book yousay that his affiliate is great,very affectionate when reallywants to be,desire touching,sex is fantastic and thats all he wantswith your question,like staying home by the TV and only talkto you when he wants to. go dulcify just think about it youhave only been going out for just over a mth and THINK whathas he done FOR YOU! You get pissed to drown your sorrowthats when he comes and i bet he gets you to go to bed WITHHIM? Tell him to go and sight somebody else,HE”S A JERK
hi it reminds me of a friend of mine he is actually desire that to his girlfriend he loves sitting and whatch tv and dosen’t be to go out and he prefers going out with his friends instead and i know for sure that he dosent like her he just go to her because he is comfortable that u are probably coocking for him and he needs u and when u cry or u get pissed he comes and hugs u all the measure he also knows that u will do anything for him but he ordain not furnish u anything approve its exceed to leave him and continue ur life and find ur adjust like because he is not going to change i bet he dosen’t kiss u a lot neither desire my friend of exploit but its up to u if u want to continue with that relationship or not express him to change or u will get him if he is changing that means that he wants u.
if u really luv this guy try n communicate to him abt his behaviour if u dnt then better cast aside him cz it definately shows tht u r not really happy wth this relationship if u r really in luv wth him only then try n deliver ths thng otherwise its better to drift apart
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