UC Davis psychologist Robert A. Emmons says that even when the odds are against you having gratitude can bring many emotional – and physical – benefits. Gratitude he said is not something to be kept tucked away until the holiday season.
"What we have learned is that gratitude generates positive outcomes," said Emmons who has written extensively about gratitude.
For Lee-Ow a 56-year-old retired pharmacist who has been undergoing cancer treatment for 2 1/2 years every moment is steeped in gratitude the sentiment that Cicero called. "not only the greatest of virtues but the parent of all others."
"It is cliche-ish but truly when you have cancer you look at every day as a gift," she said. "I try to spend as little time in the negative as possible."
That means enjoying retirement helping others who have lung cancer spending as much time with her husband and daughters as possible and looking forward to the birth of her first grandchild.
So grateful is Lee-Ow that she spearheaded an appreciation lunch last week for all the lung cancer doctors at UC Davis Medical Center who try to cure people like her.
"Viewing life as full of opportunities and gifts – and even challenges – can make us more resistant to stress," said Emmons.
In one of his studies he examined the role of gratitude in adults with neuromuscular diseases. He found that when people reflected on the things in life for which they are grateful rather than on complaints their outlook and disposition improved as did their overall satisfaction with their lives.
Although the science of gratitude is a relatively new field and definitive links between the practice of being grateful and health boosts such as lower blood pressure or cholesterol have not been demonstrated believers abound.
"There is an association between gratitude and health," said Jennifer Sadugor owner of The Yoga Solution studio in Sacramento. "When we are grateful we can relax and be in a better space than when we're resentful angry and bitter and I think those emotions have a negative effect on our body."
Sadugor said she practices gratitude every night when she climbs into bed. This week she said she is grateful for the care her 9-year-old dog is getting for a collapsing trachea; for her 90-year-old mother who is coming for Thanksgiving; for her home her job and for her own good health.
Emmons said grateful people may view their own bodies as a gift and therefore work harder to keep them healthy. Practicing gratitude in general seems to promote a healthy lifestyle he said.
In one study. Emmons found that people who kept journals detailing the things for which they were grateful actually spent 1 1/2 hours more per week exercising than those who didn't track their gratitude.
"These people tend to report higher levels of positive emotions things like enthusiasm feeling more vital more alive and more alert," he said. "These (feelings) indicate a person is positively engaged in their lives and with their environment."
Emmons and others who study or practice gratitude recognize that many obstacles can stand in the way of the emotion particularly in more technologically advanced societies in which competitiveness individualism and a sense of victimization can be pervasive.
Prayer and other traditions including meditation and yoga according to Mary Paffard a Ukiah-based yoga instructor who runs workshops focusing on gratitude can undermine stress and anxiety and provide emotional balance to those pervasive negative thoughts.
She's noticed that students who use gratitude in yoga are calmer their breath softer. She's also noticed that practicing gratitude produces generosity.
"We use the body as a metaphor for the rest of the world," she said. "If I can be grateful for what I have here that automatically will extend out. When people let go of pushing the uncomfortable away they are more likely to take on and understand other people's suffering."
In taking on other people's suffering. Rose Parr too lives and breathes gratitude. Parr is a hospice volunteer for the UC Davis Medical Center who spends several hours each week with patients who are terminally ill and their families.
Parr. 57 and in good health gets nourished each day with the gratitude of the people often steeped in grief over the imminent loss of a loved one. Last week she called 77 people receiving hospice services asking if they could use a pre-cooked Thanksgiving dinner delivered to their home.
So far. 53 have answered yes. "You can hear it in their voices these are people who really need the help," she said. "They are so grateful. ... They are overwhelmed."
One woman said she didn't know what she was going to do about the holiday this year telling Parr. "I was so depressed and you call and make it all better."
Yes we need not merely to re-write this article but to re-write the public imaginations of every nation on Planet Earth to go vegan. THEN we'd ALL be able to "lift every voice" and rejoice for when we're at peace with one another we CAN all TRULY "give thanks". Every time I listen through the Doxology (EITHER the more Scriptural OR the liberal versions). I puzzle how every animal CAN give thanks in face of animal exploitation and abuse in factory-farmed animal agriculture. Surely NO soul-searching holiday should be "all about food"!SOMEDAY the attitude of gratitude may make sense logically,as TODAY it may make sense PSYCHO-logically.
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