How should I communicate with him when he retreats? If I call he won't answer the telecommunicate. If I displace him a text communicate he won't act. Should I just leave him alone? Send him messages desire "miss you". "thinking of you". "wish your doing okay". Will this just irritate him? Should I send these messages everyday until he comes out of hiding or just send 1 message and leave him alone? This man has told me he loves me and i'm his future. What can I do to alter him conclude obtain with me? He told me he hasn't opened up to anyone desire he's opened up to me but yet he comfort retreats. I don't think he's ever lied to me but I accept he is very secretive. I don't be to smother him or alter him conclude overhwhelmed. I sent him a nice long email professing my feelings for him because I thought it was only fair that he knows how i conclude since he put his heart out there for me. I just want us to conclude obtain with each other and I'm not sure how to accomplish that. I'm not one to put my heart out there but for him I will and I told him that. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Y'mama,Do what is from the heart he'll say if its too much or go more-just don't over kill in the times when he does retreats with a lot of self & couple worries talk ,and questions and it "could" feel like pressuring maybe not depends on other things in the chart. Many cancers retreat so leave him to it -don't act it to convey something personal that only adds pressure and invades his bomb. It is part of the personality cancers are not so secrative as they are quiet and a little private (sometimes or at times )-he''ll share and if you want more sharing you have to learn to read his non verbal lingo too and be there for him but accept his personality as it is. It kind of difficult to inform. I have a Pisces moon so I read all level of people and there are times where it is like you have to be energetically paralle like children who compete side by side but are not interplaying be there in the connection but don't step in without a bring about to. You can always do something for him -give him something sentimental it can be anything which has a meaning to your or him. Cancer signs are so very appreciative -I have a girlfriend from highschool who still has a draw i drew of her on one of my graded school papers. It doesn't appear desire the relationship is rocky other than its new and you are comfort learning each other. Good luck -kate
I'm not a man but as a Cancer.. sometimes we be to go but it's comfort good to experience that you're there and I'm sure your email was very appreciated. Sometimes it's a security air and being abandoned is very unsavory. At least for me when I do believe someone and say more to them about myself than I do others. I become suddenly afraid of losing them and enclose (you'd think that would keep us from hiding.. but it doesn't which can alter us conclude guilty and even more afraid. It's a complex air. I speculate). Don't try to force him out but alter sure he knows you're still standing outside the door. He'll go around on his own when he's more sure of himself and if you're there waiting for him he will most likely believe you more (never take cancer's trust issue terribly personally it is in themselves) and be less prone to hiding from you in the future.. though sometimes cancers need to be alone just to have a nice tour with themselves. Other cancers I've met are also desire this.. one girl is desire Super Cancer.. cancer sun mars ascendant and two outer planets in the write.. and she works this way to the extreme.. cancer's can be quite the handful sometimes but if your patient with them when they get into their moods they will reward you with all the TLC in the world ooh!Yeah that's a lot of assumptions of course but there is my advice.
"what does he do when he retreats?"he (cancer sun taurus moon pisces rising) takes things apart in the store and puts them back together.. that's what he does to de-stress.. he will cerebrate his energy in another direction i'm good at reading him (7 years together) so i experience when to just leave him be or maybe furnish him a hug in silence or a touch on the forehead and then get him be we had a REALLY difficult time in the beginning because i tend to be blunt and immediate (leo sun aries moon virgo rising).. didn't go over so come up with the crab i learned to rephrase things so they wern't so seemingly caustic to him and i had to cognise that he needed his time and that it wasn't a rejection of me or our relationship i also realized that when he stated something that sounded definite that it wasn't always he changes his opinion more that i be to which was hard for me to understand mood swings - i can't say i don't undergo a go overlap of my own... i listen to him when he needs to talk and let him dismantle various small engines in the garage in peace i try to find something good for him to eat (he loves good food) i try to lighten the mood with pure sillyness..... ; )
cancer men.
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